According to my grandmother, they should. My grandmother believes that people need to stick together, even if the husband beats the wife, as long as each is receiving some sort of benefit. My mother believes that you should live with one man for ten years and then find another, or have an open relationship. Many college students I meet have the same opinion. I know one girl who has a new boyfriend every month and another who keeps three men on a rotating, weekly schedule. Some have a stable, long term relationship, and yet some who I meet do not plan to ever marry or have children. The only people I meet who seem to want to find the “one” and settle down are those who believe that true love is out there and that marriage will be wonderful.